Shut off the notification of your phone and control your inbox, Time Management????????

 

Time management

We all are fully aware that what is time management.

But Do we really think that we manage our time?

Are we people habitual of managing our time?

The answer is very loud and clear that We do not manage our time,
We just try to complete the task as soon as possible and ready to call it a day.

But Without time management, you can't experience anything.
You can't experience the enjoy of deepest level of earth because everything you would find 

in a massive way.
Being here to there and hustle to bustle,
From being productive to leisure,
You will find yourself in a situation where you can not put yourself at ease and the reason is only 

the ineffective time management.

This is the first ever thing, The TIME MANAGEMENT,
we should notice and then should manage the time accordingly.
So here, I am sharing the 5 most important habits which you need to adopt.

1. Identify the most important task of the day.
 Divide the work according to the priority basis. what is most important for you, do it first and

then what is least important, do it later on.

2. Shut off the notification of your phone and control your inbox.

Whenever we try to focus on the  work, the biggest obstacle we find that notifications keeps on 

bombarding us, then it feels like to us to respond to every single notification.

But you have to control, if someone wants to reach you urgently, they can call you.

Otherwise get back to them in your free time.

3. If task is of less than 5 minutes,  do it now.
Overcome procrastination, try to complete the task as soon as possible to reduce the burden because ultimately 

burden will lead to stress.

4. Say 'NO' to everything which does not meet to your goals.

Make a list of your goals. Write them in your notebook. chase them every single day and Say 'No" to extras

work which do not meet to your goals.

keep your goals list at the top.

5.  Focus on your unique strength, follow it and chase your passion.

Do your analysis, know your strength and chase your passion,

Devote time daily to enhance your strength.

 Note:  Do not try to fit into the schedule,

Just make your schedule according to yourself and cheers the day.
Enjoy your schedules,
Be happy and turn your normal 24 hours into the most enjoyable and

the best 24 hours of the day because time never comes back once it has gone. 

A reminder of waking up!

 Dear my all Redaers ,

Sharing a Short story with you all that from which I have gone through recenly.

This story is of mouse who got trapped in a jar in search of food. The Jar was filled with rice. When a mouse was in a jar full of rice. He keeps on thinking that life is fine and nice because he is satisfied. He has something to eat ! 

That's why he will stay and enjoy until he runs out of them.

Until one day comes... the jar will be empty and he will see that he has been trapped and will never be able to get out of the jar. 

Same happens with us  we keep on enjoying at the age when we can devote much time to be skillful. 

At the time of devoting much time to ourself, we keep on wasting our time on unproductive things like being disoragnised, gossipings here and there with friends and keeping self so much attached to social media.

But when we wake up from unrealistic world, we realised that most of the precious time has gone already.

Now, our shoulders are having more responsibilities than before. having less time as compared to earlier.

So here sending you the reminder of waking up.

DO not waste your Time.

If you're in age, that you can still strive and you can still take risk.

Do it now. 

Manage your 24 hours in a productive way to gather knowledge and to add skills in your set of personality. 

Start managing your time, Be organised , Be productive and be Smart.

Do not always Choose the “comfort".       

Comfort can give you coolness but Risk can RISE you !

Be the best, Without the Stress!   

@Kamakshi Johar

Do not let relationship consume your self identity.

Sometimes it happens that our life revolves around only one person. 
We keep on thinking about that one particular person whole day.
Our happiness starts and ends from him. 
We feel utmost happy and likeable when he is being around us. 
But when he does not give time to us, don't chit chat with us, we feel lost and unloved.
We bound us by negative thoughts 
We start distancing ourselves from everyone.

 But here I would like to say that don't let relationship consume your self identity.
Do not make him center of existence. 
He is just part of your life, not the whole life. 
You need to create your own life and identity.
Overall this life belongs to you. 

Whenever you face these type of situation where he is somewhat extra busy, he doesnot give attention to you,   then you need to create a life outside your relationship. 
Find the way and ideas which makes you happy.
The best way to handle the situation and respond who does not have time for you is to build a life you love, build a life what you want to live.


Find what inspires and energizes you, makes you happy .
Find life, be yourself,  take risks, be authentic, be a buzz women, be who really you what to be. 
Get emotionally attached to yourself. 
Give importance to yourself 
The happier and healthier you are, more you would be accompanied by positive aura. 
You would be more accountable towards him when he will realise the things and attract him by your posivitveness.
In nutshell, do not let your relationship consume your self identity.

Personal views by Kamakshi Johar

If learning to fly,,,, Have lesson from a butterfly

The incredible transformation of caterpillars into amazing butterflies is one of the marvelous process of nature. As the caterpillars forms a cocoon and then butterfly emerges from it.
Do you know it holds a valuable reminder from all of us?
Don't overthink when you are just an average performer, may be butterfly of yours is trying to emerge within from.

Let's understand this with a story.
once, A man was sitting in a garden when he saw the incredible sight of the cocoon with a tiny opening through which a butterfly was trying to emerge. He watched over an hour, as the butterfly struggles to come out of that tiny hole, bit by bit, flapping its wings, shaking, fighting and struggling to free its body. But after an hour of struggling, the poor insect was no making progress. So, the man decided to help the butterfly. He stood up and with gentle hands, he opened the hole in the cocoon just be wider to allow the butterfly to come out from the hole. Butterfly came out but with the shriveled  body. it looks weak and tender. The nan eagerly waited for the butterfly's wings to be opened up. But it did not happen. The butterfly stayed weak and unable to fly.
The man did not realize that in his attempt to help the butterfly, he even harmed it.
The struggle to become butterfly from the cocoon is a natural process which takes time and the butterfly has to struggle itself to become strong, large and to fly.

No struggle,,,,, No success. That's as true for butterfly as well it is for all of us.
Struggle and challenges makes us stronger, more capable than now. The next time when  you find yourself struggling and feel like giving up, Remember it may be nature's way of helping you to fly and soar to your true potential.
At time, you may find a dear friend or your boss or your true mentor who is deserting you in your hour of need. They are putting extra pressure on you. they are expecting high performance.Don't be too harsh on them. They may be doing it to help you. to make you learn to fly.

Remember: The greatest success does not come by sitting in comfort zone. You have to get out from the bed and have to chase your dreams.

Struggle is the only way to pursue your dreams.
To mark your performance high, you need to give 100% and then a little extra.

A short story by Tr. Kamakshi Johar

Magic of grandmother;s touch

A letter to GOD to rewind the memories of the grandmother.I  know a very special person, she is always on my mind,
All the things we used to share are left far far behind.
She was the one who carried me first,
Her love was unique from lust.

Since many years, she has watched me grow,
teaching me everything, which i need to know,
Grandma was so special in every way,
making me smile each day.

She listened to every word i said,
she reacted to what i spoke in vain,
she taught me how to calm in pain,
she used to say, do not take rest
In society, always try to give your best.

Always bow down in front of GOD,
because God's love no one can afford.
we know the importance of love and warmth of her
because we are just other for other and everything for her.
  
We all cousins used to fight to stay 
Her words are only enough to play.
She used to accompany with us history.
used to tell us mother's childhood story.

she used to meet us after a long
as she is living in HongKong.
Activeness and humbleness was part of her trait,
to be responsible always used to make her great.

Her all words and sayings are in my mind,
it helps me to do the memories rewind. 
Her life was beautiful by her kind deeds,
She was always a helping hand for other's need.

Why cant she come back,,why cant she stay?

she has left us all and gone so far away.
The last thing she told me was Do not worry, i'll be okay.
And now though she has gone, she is with me each day.


After a happy life. there's always comes an end.
everyone was sad because no more time left to spend.
There was love in everything what she did
There was a magic in her feet.
she had always that special touch.
We would love to say that we love you so so much. 

A letter to GOD by TR. Kamakshi Johar

Make yourself your own sunshine

Make yourself your own sunshine 

Before making others your friend, you have to be your's friend.
Before correcting others, you have to correct yourself.
Before making others happy, you have to make yourself happy.
Before making your time free for others, you have to free your time for yourself.
Before finding happiness with others, find happiness within yourself.

Because 
       Life begins from that time onward for the person who meets himself at wherever this great event occurs.

Men & Women born, spend their days , live their lives and Die without knowing themselves actually.
Mostly, we spent time by thinking about others, making them happy, correcting others, finding happiness with others, giving time to others and spending leisure time.
But the greatest treasure occurs when these tasks do not go for long life with you, all die with all their music in them and without knowing anything.
So start working on yourself and meet yourself.
Firstly get acquainted with yourself,start loving yourself, start taking care of yourself,start making time for yourself.
Make yourself a priority first.
It is not termed as selfishness but called personal development.
Once you balance yourself, then only you can balance the world.
Let explore the inner music and give the world to listen.
So make a plan to meet yourself
make yourself your own sunshine😊
@Tr. Kamakshi Johar
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loyalty is one which counts in luxuries

The core thing which matters in  life is Loyalty which is expected by everyone at every stage of every relationship of life.
Nothing matters if you are surrounded by the loved ones who cares you, treats you well, supports you till end.
Relationship is not count by age, not by community , not by communicating every moment of everyday.The more important thing of the togetherness is trust and loyalty.
loyalty is a word which has the deepest meaning to make the bond long lasting.
if you cant give time , its not an issue. but you cant be loyal,, its the biggest crime.
M sharing this one because
 somewhere in hurries,
Humanity buries,,
$ loyalty is one which
 count in luxuries,,,,,,,,,
Let's start behaving well because we get what we give😊
Have a trustful behavior.
because love with trust is called long lasing relationship.