My Precious Permanent Brother's BOND

It's the  journey of good & bad reaction
But full of warmth , care $ affection.
We shares joys, sorrows and tears,
We always stands together against fears,,
Side by side or the miles apart,
I remember how we used to share the tarts,,
They are always here to shower something,
Because our bond is precious like everything,,
Sometimes we all three are worst and best,
But the memories are full of bliss and trust,,
People call us brother $ sister $ good friends,
Ready to face everything whatever life sends,,
We learnt so many things together,
Thats why i gave them tag line of brother,,
Not On the occassion of only Rakshabandhan,,
all the time
May our bond shares the tight knot of special bandhan,
Wish you both a great luck under the shower of love and blessings.
A person who is the most supportive personity .
May our bond stay special, permanent and precious.
writing love
Happy Rakshabandhan
by Tr. Kamakshi Johar

Are your GOALS smart enough?

You all have some goals and ambitions in life.
well, am i right?
Have you ever given a thought that your goals are smart like you or not?
Before answering this question, you must understand that what are goals?
Goals are which become the purpose of life and having a purpose is very important.
without goals, your life would be like a tunnel where you will be obsessed with everything.
so now let's talk about that are your goals SMART or not.
 Take a real life learning.
Right now just ask a simple question in your surrounding from anyone that what are his/her goals?
he/she  will definitely say that he/she wants to become a successful person, wants to live life happy.
Do you know these are not goals, these are only wishes which he/she wants to fulfill.
Goals need commitment which needs to be fulfilled in any situation.
Goals need to be SMART even.
Smart............................ What and how?
let me clear what is meant by SMART?
S - SPECIFIC ( related to the terms of quality and by answering what and how)
M- MEASURABLE ( must be measurable in terms that how much you achieved)
A - ACHIEVABLE ( must be under your will power, should not be out of reach) 
R - REALISTIC     (must be real and far from day dreaming )
T - TIMELY            ( must has starting date and ending date, time bound is the main element)

Sharing an example with you all as my Mentor Mr. Gautam Bhartiya used to share.
if you want to loose wait and you prepare the statement that "i want to loose wait"
It is only a wish or desire, not a smart goal or commitment.
.'According to the smart goals: you must do commitment like 
S -  " I must loose 10 k.g in 3 months"
M-  "what is your weight right now and how much you loose in 1 month"
A -  "will you be able to loose 10 k.g in 3 months"
R - "is it possible to loose 10 k.g in 3 months"
T -  " are you working regularly on it or not"
In a nutshell , you must have goals on which you are likely to be worked.
goals must be balanced and must consistent to our values because it is the starting point of success.
   Just work on yourself and be consistent while facing obstacles because every cloud has a silver lining,the time will pass anyway but we should sure enough that we are passing out time in the best possible way.

"on the journey of life's highway, keep your eyes on the goal,
                                 focus on the the results not on the hole" 
                                             by:Tr. Kamakshi Johar

Don't be afraid to face failures but be afraid not to face your failures.

 Do not be afraid if things are not happening according to you.
Do not be afraid if you are not getting success.
Do not be afraid if you are not facing good things.
Do not be afraid if you are not scoring good.
Do not be afraid if you are not winning
Do not be afraid if situations are not in favor.
Do not be afraid if your plans are not proved fruitful.
Do not be afraid to deny the conventions.
Do not be afraid to be hungry for something
Do not be afraid to cross the boundaries.
Do not be afraid to take one step for yourself
Do not be afraid to live for your own desires.
Do not be afraid to make yourself happy first.
Do not be afraid to work which change your destiny.
Do not be afraid to walk alone.
Do not be afraid to change system that not satisfies you.
Do not be afraid of being afraid,,,,,,,,
       but be afraid of not facing your fears.
       be afraid of not devoting time to yourself
       be afraid of not investing on your skills
       be afraid of not working acc. to your will.
In a nutshell,   
             life is not the checklist of acquisition, attainments and fulfillments.
             but, life is difficult and complicated and sometimes devastating.
You know i believe the true path of anything is just walk on the roads of fear.
Again and again failures taught me to stop pretending that i am something else but it gave me the clarity to things that really matters to me and encouraged me to focus on my core areas of willingness.
Do not be afraid to walk alone if necessary because on a tight rope of success and on walk of life we walk alone.
we walk alone in our failures because people remains there at the back for doing preparation of our success.
so do not be afraid to face failures,,but be afraid not to face your failures.