Do not let relationship consume your self identity.

Sometimes it happens that our life revolves around only one person. 
We keep on thinking about that one particular person whole day.
Our happiness starts and ends from him. 
We feel utmost happy and likeable when he is being around us. 
But when he does not give time to us, don't chit chat with us, we feel lost and unloved.
We bound us by negative thoughts 
We start distancing ourselves from everyone.

 But here I would like to say that don't let relationship consume your self identity.
Do not make him center of existence. 
He is just part of your life, not the whole life. 
You need to create your own life and identity.
Overall this life belongs to you. 

Whenever you face these type of situation where he is somewhat extra busy, he doesnot give attention to you,   then you need to create a life outside your relationship. 
Find the way and ideas which makes you happy.
The best way to handle the situation and respond who does not have time for you is to build a life you love, build a life what you want to live.


Find what inspires and energizes you, makes you happy .
Find life, be yourself,  take risks, be authentic, be a buzz women, be who really you what to be. 
Get emotionally attached to yourself. 
Give importance to yourself 
The happier and healthier you are, more you would be accompanied by positive aura. 
You would be more accountable towards him when he will realise the things and attract him by your posivitveness.
In nutshell, do not let your relationship consume your self identity.

Personal views by Kamakshi Johar

If learning to fly,,,, Have lesson from a butterfly

The incredible transformation of caterpillars into amazing butterflies is one of the marvelous process of nature. As the caterpillars forms a cocoon and then butterfly emerges from it.
Do you know it holds a valuable reminder from all of us?
Don't overthink when you are just an average performer, may be butterfly of yours is trying to emerge within from.

Let's understand this with a story.
once, A man was sitting in a garden when he saw the incredible sight of the cocoon with a tiny opening through which a butterfly was trying to emerge. He watched over an hour, as the butterfly struggles to come out of that tiny hole, bit by bit, flapping its wings, shaking, fighting and struggling to free its body. But after an hour of struggling, the poor insect was no making progress. So, the man decided to help the butterfly. He stood up and with gentle hands, he opened the hole in the cocoon just be wider to allow the butterfly to come out from the hole. Butterfly came out but with the shriveled  body. it looks weak and tender. The nan eagerly waited for the butterfly's wings to be opened up. But it did not happen. The butterfly stayed weak and unable to fly.
The man did not realize that in his attempt to help the butterfly, he even harmed it.
The struggle to become butterfly from the cocoon is a natural process which takes time and the butterfly has to struggle itself to become strong, large and to fly.

No struggle,,,,, No success. That's as true for butterfly as well it is for all of us.
Struggle and challenges makes us stronger, more capable than now. The next time when  you find yourself struggling and feel like giving up, Remember it may be nature's way of helping you to fly and soar to your true potential.
At time, you may find a dear friend or your boss or your true mentor who is deserting you in your hour of need. They are putting extra pressure on you. they are expecting high performance.Don't be too harsh on them. They may be doing it to help you. to make you learn to fly.

Remember: The greatest success does not come by sitting in comfort zone. You have to get out from the bed and have to chase your dreams.

Struggle is the only way to pursue your dreams.
To mark your performance high, you need to give 100% and then a little extra.

A short story by Tr. Kamakshi Johar

Make yourself your own sunshine

Make yourself your own sunshine 

Before making others your friend, you have to be your's friend.
Before correcting others, you have to correct yourself.
Before making others happy, you have to make yourself happy.
Before making your time free for others, you have to free your time for yourself.
Before finding happiness with others, find happiness within yourself.

Because 
       Life begins from that time onward for the person who meets himself at wherever this great event occurs.

Men & Women born, spend their days , live their lives and Die without knowing themselves actually.
Mostly, we spent time by thinking about others, making them happy, correcting others, finding happiness with others, giving time to others and spending leisure time.
But the greatest treasure occurs when these tasks do not go for long life with you, all die with all their music in them and without knowing anything.
So start working on yourself and meet yourself.
Firstly get acquainted with yourself,start loving yourself, start taking care of yourself,start making time for yourself.
Make yourself a priority first.
It is not termed as selfishness but called personal development.
Once you balance yourself, then only you can balance the world.
Let explore the inner music and give the world to listen.
So make a plan to meet yourself
make yourself your own sunshine😊
@Tr. Kamakshi Johar
Share your love 

Siblings!

SIBLINGS!

We keep our words less,
       but we share our love bond together!!
We hide our toys from each other,
       we play 'ghar -ghar' together!!
We fight on several topics,
       But we laugh together!!
We always say harsh words to each other,
      But we pray for goodness together!!
We never show joys and sorrows,
      But we live the best part of life together!!
We always tease by different names,
      But we smile by remembering them together!!
We always hide secrets from parents,
      But we get threaten from each other!!
We live together in childhood,
      But we separate in adulthood!!
The untold words, feelings, joys, memories which are pen down in hearts and can not be faded.
The best part of life, siblings love, bond, memories, care, affectionate for each others.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
By Tr. Kamakshi Johar

Another name of smile: dedicated to all WOMEN

 Another Name of  SMILE!

     

       •You give without selfishness in life,
                                           You learn by your own style!

    •You shout that time is passing by,
                                     But for yourself you never try!

 •You have dreams in your eyes,
                                    But you never show in your lives!

 •You drives our footsteps,
                                                 Which makes us the outstanding champs!

            •You encourages us for a new hope,
                                                      Which brought us to the highest top!

            •You always keep your joys in jars,
                                         But you light other’s happiness like stars!

                  •You support till end to the everyone,
                                        Which makes a beautiful soul to the everyone!

                  •She is the one who can do anything,
                                    Yes! You are the only one who deserves everything!

                        •You go with us to the thousand miles,
                                              That’s why you are the another name of smile!

                                                               BY: Kamakshi Johar