Do not let relationship consume your self identity.

Sometimes it happens that our life revolves around only one person. 
We keep on thinking about that one particular person whole day.
Our happiness starts and ends from him. 
We feel utmost happy and likeable when he is being around us. 
But when he does not give time to us, don't chit chat with us, we feel lost and unloved.
We bound us by negative thoughts 
We start distancing ourselves from everyone.

 But here I would like to say that don't let relationship consume your self identity.
Do not make him center of existence. 
He is just part of your life, not the whole life. 
You need to create your own life and identity.
Overall this life belongs to you. 

Whenever you face these type of situation where he is somewhat extra busy, he doesnot give attention to you,   then you need to create a life outside your relationship. 
Find the way and ideas which makes you happy.
The best way to handle the situation and respond who does not have time for you is to build a life you love, build a life what you want to live.


Find what inspires and energizes you, makes you happy .
Find life, be yourself,  take risks, be authentic, be a buzz women, be who really you what to be. 
Get emotionally attached to yourself. 
Give importance to yourself 
The happier and healthier you are, more you would be accompanied by positive aura. 
You would be more accountable towards him when he will realise the things and attract him by your posivitveness.
In nutshell, do not let your relationship consume your self identity.

Personal views by Kamakshi Johar

Boss lady of your life

Women who starts your life 
Women who take every single step with you
Women who take stand for you in any circumstance
Women with whom you spent your whole life as a mother, sister, girlfriend,wife or a daughter.

Have you ever given a thought how is she very important for you?
she losses her morale,
when you do not understand her, 
when you do not rely on her,
when you choose to ignore her,
when you like to be self driven
when you like to celebrate alone
          she really feel bad, unwanted when all these things had done by you.
but sometimes she has no choice. she chooses to start living for herself because you did not understand her worth.
she is not doing this because she has attitude, but she is doing this because she has self respect.
once you start ignoring her,it will be tough hard for you to look your happiness. 
it will be tough to share your joys and sorrow because she is the only one who taps your shoulder and says" i am with you"
she is the boss of your life by whom supports you attain your goals.
   At every step ,
   At every moment,
   At every new beginning just imagine face of your boss lady who has been saying " SMILE----- LET'S DELIGHT THE EACH OTHER'S DREAMS.