Do not let relationship consume your self identity.

Sometimes it happens that our life revolves around only one person. 
We keep on thinking about that one particular person whole day.
Our happiness starts and ends from him. 
We feel utmost happy and likeable when he is being around us. 
But when he does not give time to us, don't chit chat with us, we feel lost and unloved.
We bound us by negative thoughts 
We start distancing ourselves from everyone.

 But here I would like to say that don't let relationship consume your self identity.
Do not make him center of existence. 
He is just part of your life, not the whole life. 
You need to create your own life and identity.
Overall this life belongs to you. 

Whenever you face these type of situation where he is somewhat extra busy, he doesnot give attention to you,   then you need to create a life outside your relationship. 
Find the way and ideas which makes you happy.
The best way to handle the situation and respond who does not have time for you is to build a life you love, build a life what you want to live.


Find what inspires and energizes you, makes you happy .
Find life, be yourself,  take risks, be authentic, be a buzz women, be who really you what to be. 
Get emotionally attached to yourself. 
Give importance to yourself 
The happier and healthier you are, more you would be accompanied by positive aura. 
You would be more accountable towards him when he will realise the things and attract him by your posivitveness.
In nutshell, do not let your relationship consume your self identity.

Personal views by Kamakshi Johar

Dedicated to my 3 years of graduation

All about my lifelines

2014 - 17 की थी हम सब हस्तिया ,,,,
          अब थम सी गयी है वो सारी मस्तिया !!!

वो कॉलेज का अफसाना ,,,,
            बीता सा लगता है वो जमाना !!!!
वो दीक्षा की दिलचस्प किस्से ,,,,
            बन गए  है हमारी यादो के हिस्से !!!
वो हमारी लाडो भावना सबसे unique  ,,,,
            लगती थी वो सबको  फैशन की queen  !!!
वो शीतल , रितु बार बार चिल्लाना , 
             बंक करने की सिर्फ सोचते ही रह जाना !!!
पढाई करके हो  जाते थे चूर 
             टोपर बनने का था जो सुरूर !!!!
घर जाने की सबको होती थी हड़बड़ी ,,,,
             कंधो पर सारी जिम्मेदारियां थी जो खड़ी!!!
 वो आकृति के हाथो का स्वादिस्ट खाना ,,,,
         कहते थे कल फिर जरा बनाकर तो लाना !!!
वो कीर्ति का जाटो वाला attitude 
            एक्सीलेंस was लाइक amplitude!!! 
इतना नशा तो किसी चीज़ में नहीं है ,,
          तुम  सब हो मेरे पास ऐसे जैसे और  कोई नहीं है !!!
अब दूरियां कुछ बढ़ने सी है ,,,,,
                                तुम सब लौट आओ मेरे पास 
   क्यंकि सारी खुशियां तुमसे ही तो जुडी है !!!!
About the best part of my life was the graduation,,,masti,,,, full of cheers,,,,, everything. All the best moments are captured and saved in the gallery of my heart.
dedicated to the bestest friends ever sheetal, kirti, diksha, ritu, aakriti, yogita. u all were amazing and i should not forget mY presence.

Siblings!

SIBLINGS!

We keep our words less,
       but we share our love bond together!!
We hide our toys from each other,
       we play 'ghar -ghar' together!!
We fight on several topics,
       But we laugh together!!
We always say harsh words to each other,
      But we pray for goodness together!!
We never show joys and sorrows,
      But we live the best part of life together!!
We always tease by different names,
      But we smile by remembering them together!!
We always hide secrets from parents,
      But we get threaten from each other!!
We live together in childhood,
      But we separate in adulthood!!
The untold words, feelings, joys, memories which are pen down in hearts and can not be faded.
The best part of life, siblings love, bond, memories, care, affectionate for each others.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
By Tr. Kamakshi Johar